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A comprehensive list of the recurring queer sex-positive parties in Toronto for us, by us
*since this story was published The Lair and Nineteeen Toronto - who hosted sex-positive events - have closed and we've sadly removed their parties *
Concealed in a dark room's shadows, displayed on a crowded dancefloor, secured with an array of leather straps, coated in latex and all oiled up, decked out like a dog on a wrestling team—there are countless ways to tantalize your naughty side in this great and all-too-wholesome city of ours. To support you in your depravities, here is our comprehensive guide (in alphabetical order) to all the recurring sex-positive queer parties in Toronto. Read, but beware: endless delights await.
Please note that most of these parties are “sex-positive” rather than being full-out sex parties—so, they foster an uninhibited atmosphere where intimacy can, but need not necessarily, happen. And in all cases consent is key, duh!
This is a list of sex-positive events in spaces all over the city that we are not affiliated with. If you have any issues regarding inclusion or event rules, please reach out to the ogranizers.
We're also scoured the scene to find as many as we can, if we've missed a sex-positive party where nasty things happen, please reach out.
What it’s all about: A collaboration between Northbound Leather, Playground Kink and Impulse Events, this is a grand fetish ball with a fetish dress code, stocked dungeon, performances and more.
Who’s going: Everyone.
Clothing check: There is a coat check.
When and where does it happen: Now and then at The Phoenix.
What's it all about: Frame dat ass on the dancefloor at this popular gear party.
Who’s going: It's a men only (male presenting) event.
Clothing Check: Yes.
When and where does it happen: The first Saturday of each month at The Black Eagle.
What's it all about: The goal of this party is to gather and welcome big hairy, beefcake studs and the guys that love them dance and flirt.
Who’s going: Everyone. Hairy men and muscle dudes will love it the most.
Clothing check: Coat check is available.
When and where does it happen: Every other month on the first Friday at The Black Eagle.
What's it all about: Behind on your laundry? No need to worry at this party where nudity is mandatory on the main floor.
Who's going: Guys (trans and non-binary guys included).
Clothing Check: Yes.
When and where does it happen: The third Thursday of each month at The Black Eagle.
What's it all about: Recover from your hard week with some group sex.
Who’s going: Cis men, bi men, trans men–male presenting folks primarily.
Clothing Check: There's a coat and bag check included with your entry.
When and where does it happen: Every Saturday at Anvil.
What's it all about: Bring all your kinks and your best gear to this gritty fetish rave.
Who’s going: Absolutely everyone and anyone “with the exception of garbage fascists.” They are intersectional and consider themselves a very queer party.
When and where does it happen: Four times each year–in April, June, September and December–at Ground Control.
What's it all about: They host an array of lifestyle parties for rubber and latex lovers.
Who’s going: Everyone! All groups!
Clothing Check: not sure on this one.
When and where does it happen: They have several parties at different frequencies and venues.
What’s it all about: They host an array of kinky parties with different themes so that things don't get too repetitive.
Who’s going: It depends on the party, but many are for Sapphics.
Clothing Check: Depends.
When and where does it happen: They host various events at different venues.
What's it all about: Play and dance anywhere at this popular fuckfest.
Who’s going: Men, cis or trans.
Clothing Check: Oh yes.
When and where does it happen: The second Friday of each month at The Black Eagle.
What's it all about: A queer pole dancing, stripper, performance art, dark-cornered party that happens inside a strip club. This one is very special.
Who's going: It's an all inclusive sex resort! All groups a part of the 2SLGBTQIA+.
Clothing Check: No.
When and where does it happen: This one happens when it happens. Follow their IG page or better yet, sign up for the newsletter.
What's it all about: This is a dance party inside a bathhouse, which has a bar and a dancefloor and lights and smoke and performances.
Who's going: Men, cis or trans.
Clothing Check: Duh.
When and where does it happen: This one happens every few months at Spa Excess. Best to follow's the DJ's page for when they pop up.
What's it all about: Bators galore! Just a bunch of dudes jackin’ it together. Did someone say circle jerk?
Who’s going: Cis men, bi men, trans men–male presenting folks primarily.
Clothing Check: There's a coat and bag check included with your entry.
When and where does it happen: The last Sunday of each month at Anvil.
What's it all about: Horny guys cruise and soak up the fluids.
Who’s Going: Cis men, bi men, trans men–male presenting folks primarily.
Clothing Check: There's a coat and bag check included with your entry.
When and where does it happen: Every Thursday at Anvil.
What's it all about: Scantily clad guys just looking for someone to warm them up.
Who’s Going: Cis men, bi men, trans men–male presenting folks primarily.
Clothing Check: There's a coat and bag check included with your entry.
When and where does it happen: Every Sunday at Anvil.
What's it all about: Guys gush over each other at this fap-happy bash.
Who's going: This is a men-only event, trans men included.
Clothing Check: There's coat check available on regular nights at the Eagle.
When and where does it happen: The first Wednesday of each month at The Black Eagle.
What's it all about: A dance party for everyone where queer euphoria is the goal.
Who’s Going: All queer people–all identities, all expressions, all bodies. It is, however, mainly a man-heavy fuck fest.
Clothing check: Yup!
When and where does it happen: The date varies. The venue it's hosted at has closed to follow them for updates.
Sexy Special Mention
Bunker (has a permanent dark room) the newest venue on Church Street is a sexy underground nightclub with a backroom for xxx-tra fun.
Steamy Sidenote: Bathhouse Parties
Tap the link to each bathhouse to head to their monthly calendar. We've listed their monthly events below.
Also check out our Toronto Bathhouse Guide for more details on each venue.
Chubs in the Tubs
Bear in Excess
Latin Night
Rough House
Asian Night
Cum Union
Northern Bear Baths
TRANSlation
Load Count Night
Sapphic Aquatica
If we missed your recurring sex-positive queer party, please do get in touch at events@yohomo.ca.
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